The Incremental Edge

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to have a clear sense of purpose and direction in life, while others struggle to find their passion and motivation? What is the secret behind their success and happiness?

The answer is simple: they have found their “why”.

Your “why” is the reason you do what you do, the core value that drives you, the ultimate goal that inspires you. It is not just what you do, but why you do it. It is not just what you want, but why you want it.

Finding your “why” can help you:

• Discover your strengths and talents
• Align your actions with your values
• Set meaningful and realistic goals
• Overcome challenges and obstacles
• Stay motivated and focused
• Make a positive impact on others

But how do you find your “why”? Here are some steps to help you:

1. Reflect on your past experiences. Think about the times when you felt most fulfilled, excited, or proud of yourself. What were you doing? Who were you with? How did you feel? What made those moments meaningful to you?
2. Identify your passions and interests. What are the things that you love to do, learn, or talk about? What are the topics that spark your curiosity or creativity? What are the causes that you care about or support?
3. Ask yourself why. For each of the passions and interests that you listed, ask yourself why they matter to you. Why do you enjoy them? Why do they make you happy? Why do they resonate with you? Keep asking why until you reach the deepest level of your motivation.
4. Write down your “why” statement. Once you have identified the core value that drives you, write it down in a clear and concise sentence. For example: “I write because I want to share my ideas and inspire others.” or “I teach because I want to help children learn and grow.” or “I volunteer because I want to make a difference in my community.”
5. Review and refine your “why” statement. Make sure that your “why” statement reflects your true self and not what others expect from you. It should be authentic, specific, and personal. You can also ask for feedback from people who know you well and support your vision.
6. Live by your “why” statement. Use your “why” statement as a guide for your decisions and actions. Whenever you face a challenge or an opportunity, ask yourself: “Does this align with my why?” If yes, go for it. If no, let it go. Remember that your “why” is not a fixed destination, but a dynamic journey. You can always revisit and revise your “why” statement as you grow and evolve.

Finding your “why” is not easy, but it is worth it. It can help you live a more fulfilling, meaningful, and impactful life. So don’t wait any longer, start finding your “why” today!